Welcome to another book review here at Createyou86. The holiday's can be a tough time. I can highly relate to this in that I had to let some toxic relationships go a few years ago that were very important people in my life. This book would have been helpful to me back then. At the end of each chapter there are discussion questions where you can think about, and get your own feelings on paper easily, and out of your head where they can tend to stew. This book also gives simple ways to put what you read into practice in your own life.
Jack Eason has been the executive director of Crossover Cups Mission for thirty years. He also consults with a variety of nonprofit ministries, helping them develop successful approaches to fundraising and development.
Check out a few comments about The Loneliness Solution below. To PREORDER the book CLICK HERE.
When I lived in California I didn't have many friends. I found friendship in our weekly Bible Study group. Even though these were older people, senior citizens even there was a bond there that I believe that we as young people brought to the table. I have always looked for new ways to build bonds through loneliness. I used to go sing at senior citizens homes at Christmas time because some of those people no longer have family, or their family has abandoned them. It is the simple things that you never expect will build a bond, and end your loneliness. For anyone who is feeling lonely this book is a great way to start to end that feeling in your life.
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Let me know in the comments below: When was the las time you felt lonely, and how did you come out of that loneliness?
Welcome to another product review here at Createyou86. This has to be one of my favorite products that I have ever reviewed, and I have been doing this for over four years. This Bible is created for girls aged 8-12, and the soft screen-printed cover is so luxurious. It comes with colorable sticker sheets, as well as four colored pencils. This set would be the perfect gift for a young artist. This Bible is also a journaler's dream. It contains hundreds of inspiring verses ready to be colored. I wish that I had this product as a young girl so I had something like it to look back at as an adult.
Some key features of this Bible include:
KEEP SCROLLING FOR PHOTOS AND MY YOUTUBE UNBOXING VIDEO
I hope that you enjoyed learning more about this gift set, and let me know in the comments below: Would you have loved this Bible as a young girl?
I received a copy of the NIV Beautiful Word Coloring Bible for Girls Gift Set from Zondervan (HarperCollins Christian Publishing) for this review, but I did not receive any money for my honest opinions about this product.
Welcome to another product review here at Createyou86. It has been a while, but I am excited to say that I am back at it. I love when I get to do product reviews, and this one is very special because I have been getting deeper into the word of God lately. Below are a few photos from inside the book to give you a sneak peek.
This book full of 40 days of devotionals became a workbook for me to take back my life exactly as the title says, and to get deeper into the word. It is great to use by yourself, or to use with a significant other or even older children. There is also a PDF available of a four day devotional specifically for kids which you can find HERE. The font is a large print, and very easy to read. The book is broken down into 6 weeks worth of sections, and gives a devotional section for each day. Each day is also numbered for you in the contents if you prefer to keep track that way as opposed to sections. There is a black ribbon bookmark so that you can keep your place easily, and there are beautiful full page quotes to inspire you. Take Back Your Life is $28.99 USD / $35.99 CAD, and you can find it on Amazon or on the books website where you can find even more information or make a purchase. I really have been enjoying this book, and I have been working on it with my fiancé, and in-between Bible Study.
The author Levi Lusko is the founder and lead pastor of Fresh Life Church, located in Montana, Wyoming, Oregon, and Utah. He is the bestselling author of Through the Eyes of a Lion, Swipe Right, and I Declare War. Levi also travels the world speaking about Jesus.
Let me know in the comments below: What have you been doing to take back your life recently?
Welcome to my One Book July 2020 week three update. My fiancé, and I have finally had the opportunity to catch up, and both put our goals into our #Powersheets together. I did end up getting my original box from Cultivate What Matters so I now have a years worth of power sheets (Two 6 month planners.). You might be wondering why we are both using the same powersheets planner. The Powersheets that I purchased are being used as a relationship, and family goal setting planner. A place where we can figure out what needs to happen in our relationship in order for it to flourish, and grow, and be healthy. How are we doing this? We both picked a different color marker, and have picked our goals, and are sharing space in order to get it all in the same book, and have it not be confusing. I might do a future blog post about this if I can figure out how to do it without having to blur out all of the photos because of how personal it is. I have kind of stalled in reading The One Thing because I started doing something I wouldn't have thought in a million years that I would be doing. What is it you ask? Bible Study. I am by no means religious, but I enjoy the stories, and I like hearing different peoples perspectives, and how they dissect what is written. I find it all really fascinating. However, it has taken away from what I started out to do so I will definitely be back to The One Thing over the weekend (today is Friday), and using my commonplace book to keep the quotes that I find really interesting or prophetic. I don't feel bad that I got off track because I enjoy trying new things. You can also check out my YouTube Intro video to see what my original plan was.
I'll be back next week with another update. I hope that you are enjoying this series. I have watched so many YouTube videos of everyones One Book July videos I couldn't count them if I tried, and I am loving them.
Let me know in the comments below: How has your July been? Are you partaking in #onebookjuly2020 ?
Welcome to my Week 2 update for #onebookjuly2020. I am very excited to officially be in my #Powersheets, and believe it or not my first order that I made with Cultivate What Matters actually arrived today after 14 days sitting at the post office, and 7 previous days with UPS. I have been working through my mid-year refresh prep-work pages. It is 34 pages of prep, and it truly gets you started on making your best goals. click the photo to see my unboxing video.
I am also still reading The One Thing, and following along with Carie Harling. I really enjoy the book, and it is reaffirming a lot of information that I already believed to be true about several different subjects (you should read it so I don't have to give it away!) I am really enjoying collecting quotes from the book in my commonplace book. You can find tons of photos of these types of things on my Instagram Feed . I am still in my EDC which is my Van Der Spek Touch Me, and I love it so much. I got some new markers which I am really loving currently. I hope that you are enjoying these little updates, and new YouTube videos each week as I work my way through One Book July. This is truly my favorite time of the year in the planner community because I learn so much from all of the other planners in the community, and how other people function in their planners.
Let me know in the comments below: What have you learned about someone else so far during #onebookjuly2020 ?
Welcome to a new month, a new blog series, and my favorite time of the year in the planner community which happens to be #Onebookjuly2020. This year I had grand plans to start on July first, but there have been a few bumps in the road. While I normally only have one book as a planner (my EDC Van Der Spek Touch Me in personal size), I purchased the Cultivate What Matters Powersheets for the second half of the year during their summer refresh to start setting some major personal, and relationship goals for both my fiancé, and myself. However, the delivery is taking longer than expected. Cultivate What Matters has been very helpful in this matter, has expedited a new shipment for me, and it should be here ASAP. As soon as the items come in I'll be doing an unboxing on Youtube, and posting photos on Instagram. The other part of onebookjuly2020 that I am taking part in is the read-a-long that Carie Harling is doing with the book The One Thing by Gary Keller and Jay Papasan. Along with the read-a-long I am writing down my favorite quotes, and tidbits in my brand new Leuchtturm Commonplace Book that I also started for this challenge. If you are taking part in the #onebookjuly2020 challenge I hope your first week is going well, and if you aren't....WHY NOT?
Let me know in the comments below: What did you do for the July 4th holiday if you celebrate?
Do not go past the mark you aimed for. In victory learn when to stop.
I did not know much about this topic, and though that as planners it was natural to go above, and beyond in our actions such as projects, goals, and life goals. I want to learn when enough is enough, and how this law can help us as planners to accomplish greater things.
By doing further research into the topic I can better assess myself as a planner, and give insight to other planners like myself about goals, and goal planning. This topic is important to study because most planning people are goal oriented, and once they meet one goal they try to aim higher, and higher. It is important to find out whew as planners do this, and if it really helps to aim higher or if we should make completely new goals based on reaching a singular goal. This study will advance new knowledge and new ways of understanding because making goals, how we set goals, how we plan, and how to move forward are important to the planning community. I hope that this case study will shed light on how these things can be updated, and how planning in general can be changed to be better, and lead to better, more powerful planning sessions and life goals.
QUOTES ON LAW 47
"There is nothing more intoxicating than victory, and nothing more dangerous."
"Understand: In the realm of power, you must be guided by reason. To let a momentary thrill or an emotional victory influence or guide your moves will prove fatal."
"When you attain success, step back cautious. When you gain victory understand the part played by the particular circumstances of a situation, and never simply repeat the same actions again and again."
"History is littered with the ruins of victorious empires and the corpses of leaders who could not learn to stop and consolidate their gains."
"Success plays strange tricks on the mind. It makes you feel invulnerable while also making you more hostile and emotional when people challenge your power."
"Power makes you less able to adapt to circumstances. You come to believe your character is more responsible for your success than your strategies and planning."
"The powerful vary their rhythms and patterns, change course, adapt to circumstances, and learn to improvise."
"People who go past the mark are often motivated by desire to please a master by proving their dedication."
The moment of victory is often the moment of greatest peril. In the heat of victory, arrogance and overconfidence can push you past the goal you had aimed for, and by going too far you make more enemies than you defeat. Do not allow success to go to your head. There is no substitute for strategy and careful planning. Set a goal, and when you reach it stop.
As a planner this law is completely contradictory to everything I stand for as a planner. Why do we plan higher after reaching our goals? I started planning in my late 20's and had so many goals for myself. As I keep setting goals for myself I kept feeling like I needed to acquire more stuff for my planner. At this point I am around seven years into planning journey, and the amount of stuff that I have accumulated is pretty crazy. I currently set goals for several areas of life including home, school, and relationships.
The 48 Laws of Power contributes the three laws that this case study is based on. This book explains the meaning of the laws, historical significance, and how the laws can be applied in life.
Illimitablemen.com has done extensive research into the 48 laws, and how they can be applied. The book does not include any information on how to succeed through use of the laws, but gives historical references to look back on, and dissect. There is not much research done on the topic unless you delve deeper into machiavellianism. While reading excerpts of "Management" by Richard L. Daft I found ways of setting goals that companies would use, but can definitely be used as personal goal setting. The Harvard Business Review also has many articles about goal setting, planning, and how to be most effective. However, throughout the HBR Podcasts it was never brought up to exceed expectations, but to focus on issues at hand, and not feeling guilty if you fail. The HBR classic article by Jim Collins talks about how companies should use, and keep up to date on catalytic mechanisms. This specific article can be related to personal use as well.
Catalytic mechanisms are to visions what the central elements of the U.S. Constitution are to the Declaration of Independence-devices that translate lofty aspirations into concrete reality."
"Catalytic mechanisms share 5 distinct characteristics:
CREATE A CATALYTIC MECHANISM
Don't just add, remove.
Create don't copy.
Use money, but not only money.
Allow your mechanism to evolve.
Build an integrated set.
CATALYTIC MECHANISM QUOTES
"Take 3M for decades, its executives have dreamed of having a constant flow of terrific new products. To achieve that end, in 1956, the company instituted a catalytic mechanism that is by now well known: Scientists are urged to spend 15% of their time experimenting and inventing in an area of their own choice."
"A catalytic mechanism should be a idiosyncratic adaptation, if not a wholesale creation, for a unique situation."
"New catalytic mechanisms sometimes produce unintended negative consequences and need correction."
"One catalytic mechanism is good; several that reinforce one another as a set is even better."
"Catalytic mechanisms alone will not create greatness; they need a dream to guide them but if you can blend huge intangible aspirations with simple tangible catalytic mechanisms then you'll have the magic combination from which sustained excellence grows."
"Personal catalytic mechanisms have all the benefits of organizational mechanism: They put bite into good intentions, dramatically increasing the odds of actually being true to your personal vision instead of letting your dreams remain unrealized."
I selected Law 47 to study because as someone in the planning community this law seems to go against common thoughts and beliefs that are held among planners. The strategies that I have used to research this topic includes the internet, reading the book The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene, and from reading several other books related to Law 47 as well as online articles or studies pertaining to this book or specific law.
HARVARD BUSINESS REVIEW PODCASTS
563: Escape Your Comfort Zone
504: Achieve Your Goals Finally
IMPORTANT QUOTES FROM THESE PODCASTS
"What's much easier for your brain to do is to do replacement behaviors."
"What happens is we set goals for ourselves and then we choose actions all day long, everyday that support those goals, and often, those choices we're making are not fully conscious choices. Our brains are guiding us because your brain knows what your goals are."
"We're constantly making choices to try to get closer to all of our goals, and a lot of them run on autopilot, but in order for your brain to make good choices about what to do at every point during the day-again, largely unconsciously we're making these choices - it [your brain] really needs to know very specifically what it is you want to achieve."
"It uses a lot less willpower to follow through on a plan you already have than it does to try to spontaneously make the right choice in that moment when you are vulnerable."
"Goal setting and planning how you're going to reach a goal should always be a process that is an evolving process."
SPECIFIC GOAL SETTING STEPS
- Planning is the most fundamental of the four management functions.
- A goal is a desired future state that the organization wants to realize.
- Planning is the act of determining goals and defining the means of achieving them.
- A plan is a blueprint specifying the resource allocations, schedules, and other actions necessary for attaining goals.
The research problem I have been investigating is the 47th law of The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene which states: "Do not go past the mark you aimed for. In victory learn when to stop." I have done extensive research about goal setting, and my own experiences not only as a planner, but as a goal setter.
While reading parts of Management by Richard L. Daft I found that personal and organizational goal setting criteria aren't all that different. Even listening to multiple episodes of the HBR Podcast and interviews nowhere does the information say to reset goals. On the contrary, why should we stop goal setting, and how do we set higher goals if we have to stop? Are we going to plateau, and "be all we can be?" These findings were pretty unexpected because it is burnt, and trained into our brains at a very young age that we should always aim higher with our goals after we have achieved them. We do this with weight loss, saving money, and many other goals that we might have in our lives. Lets see how this translates to goal planning in general.
-Robert S. Kaplan and David P. Norton "Mastering The Management System", Harvard Business Review (January 2008) pg. 63, 77.
My conclusion to this case study is that law 47 of the 47 Laws of Power is justified in saying to stop once you have reached your victory whatever that may be. All of the research that I have done for this post over a few years time have shown me that nowhere in planning content that I have seen about goal setting does anyone talk about resetting goals for higher achievement.
Let me know in the comments: Do you normally keep reaching for new achievements after reaching a goal or do you start a whole different goal?
Welcome to the last post in the Conversations With My Planner Girls Self blog series here at Createyou86. I wanted to do a quick post, and let you know all of the planners that I have been using for June.
Let me know in the comments: Have you ever taken part in #OneBookJuly ?
Welcome to another post from the Conversations With My Planner Girl Self blog series here at Createyou86. If you are new to the planning community this post is specifically to you. This post will tell you how to set up a planner. It will be something that I wished that I had when I first started planning in one simple post. Most bloggers make it near impossible to find the meat and potatoes of their post, but here it is!
HOW TO SET UP A PLANNER IN 7 EASY STEPS
How simple was that? I wish I had something that was as simple as that when I was setting up my first planner. I searched YouTube for hours looking for the "right setup" for me when it was as simple as putting things where I needed them. I hope that this is helpful in your new planner journey. Your Planner Style Podcast Episode
Let me know in the comments: How long have you been planning? Did you wish you had something like this as a new planner to help you?
Welcome to the second post in the Conversations With My Planner Girl Self blog series here at Createyou86. This post will be all about my new Homebinder. What is a homebinder? You might be thinking. I consider a homebinder a catch all for anything that has to do with my home or vehicle. This is a planner that will be staying at home. This planner is A5 so that I have plenty of room to write, and log any pertinent information. For my binder I purchased a Carpe Diem A5 binder for $10.00. Carpe Diem was having a spring clearance sale, and I purchased a pack of monthly dividers for $2.00 which I taped together to create my 12 dividers, and a pack of three clear bookmarks for $1.00. Twelve dividers may seem like a lot of dividers, but I am using all but one of the sections. I used the Carpe Diem tab sticker pack to rename the dividers. Here are my sections
Let me know in the comments below if you have a home binder, and what yours consists of.
Welcome to a brand new blog series here at Createyou86. There will be four installments. One for each week in June so make sure you come back to hear some of the things I have conversations with myself about my planners. The first time that I did one of these was on The Createyou86 Podcast. You can check that out HERE . This series will be an opportunity for me to get deeper into why I plan, what it does for me, and when I need planning the most among other things.
I started planning in 2014 after a photo came through my Instagram feed. I saw a planner with some stickers on it, and a Filofax hashtag. I purchased my first Filofax, and the rest is history. I still have that red Filofax Domino. Planning evolved from there for me into something that I could do to keep control in my life. Not only for myself, but for others around me. I used stickers, and decor all over. Looking back at memories that pop up on Facebook or Instagram I tend to laugh at what kind of decor I had used. I still use stickers, but I haven't used washi in a long time, and I have more than I know what to do with. While in this strange time I am still trying to keep up my planning even if it is for the most simple things. I have found this meme in every planner group, and it kind of irks me.
This irks me because some weeks I find myself planning more than I had in previous weeks, and months. I know people are homeschooling so that's a tons of stuff to put in your planner, and people working from home is another reason. People are also ordering a ton of stuff off of Amazon, and other sites so they have plenty to keep track of. I am super guilty of this. I have ordered shelves (2), makeup, desk organization, and a few other things. Boredom, and late nights get the best of me. I ordered planner items from Wish one morning around four AM. My planner is still very useful to me. Come fall it'll be even more useful when school starts back up for me. I have tried several sizes, and styles of planners, but I always return to my favorite which will always be personal size. Planning will return to normal soon, and planner spreads will be full of appointments again. I plan to stay sane, and I plan to move forward when the rest of the world is standing still.
Let me know in the comments why you plan. Let's be honest with out planner girl selves.
Welcome to another post here at Createyou86. This is an annual post as of December 2018. I don't think it matters what month it is posted in because things change in the planner community so frequently that favorites, and dislikes change frequently as well. You can hear the podcast episode where I did my first Planner Anti Haul HERE. A Planner anti-haul is just a list of items that based on my current likes, and dislikes are products that I will never purchase from the planner community or items that I have purchased that I was disappointed in or regret purchasing. Some of the items remain the same, but some have changed. My list is as follows:
Let me know in the comments below. What are some of your planner anti-haul items so far for 2020?
.Welcome to another post here at Createyou86. I wanted to talk about some of my must have planner items for 2020. This will differ for most people, but I always find myself reaching for the same products over and over again. While I am definitely a decorative planner I consider myself a minimalist in that I use the same products almost every week. Of course there are tons of shops that I love, but I tend to stick to ones I truly enjoy, and purchasing from them only once or twice a year, and I try to keep everything as affordable as possible. I created a list of my top five essential planner items that I have reached for repeatedly in 2020.
2020 Planner Essentials
I know that these items will never be essentials for every planner out there, but they are good starter items, and even after years of planning I still find myself needing or wanting the essentials that I started with. I hope that if you are a new planner that this post has helped you with what some essential items might end up being for you.
For those seasoned planners, and new planners alike let me know in the comments what your planner essentials are at this stage in your planning journey.
Welcome to another post here at Createyou86. I wanted to do some self-reflection on the way that I plan. While I consider myself very consistent, I did go back to 2018 to see how things have changed as the seasons of life have changed over time.
When I was planning in my Personal Filofax Malden I was still using horizontal Filofax WO2P inserts, and using stickers.
I bought the wrong inserts at the end of 2018, and for $3.55 I decided that I would give them a try. I found the placement of the boxes to be very confusing. I used a personal wide for a full year in my Foxy Fix Spice Leather, and I loved the experience.
This is truly my comfort zone even when there isn't a ton to plan. I never find that I run out of room, there is plenty of room to use stickers, and those stickers keep me organized, and let me focus on what is important within that day.
I can honestly say that my planning is very consistent. Even with school being the busiest seasons for me I will always enjoy horizontal inserts. This is just how my brain works.
Let me know in the comments what your favorite layout for your planning includes.
Welcome to the Createyou86 Blog. The last time I posted here was January 1, 2019. It has been almost a year and a half, but to be fair I was feeling a little burnt out with a few different projects I was working on. I was also recovering from a spinal fusion done on June 12, 2018 which failed, and lead to other issues. It was recommended by my lawyer to cease most social media postings, and because of my injury I cannot return to my previous job sector so I decided to go back to school, and I only have five more classes until I receive my Associates Degree in Drug and Alcohol Counseling. As soon as that ends i'll swiftly move onto my Bachelors, and so on. I am still planning. I think I always will. It keeps me sane.
The world is a very different time, and space right now with COVID-19 running rampant. This girl here was actually tested, and it came back negative thankfully.
I am currently using a Van Der Spek Touch Me in personal in the color Tabac. The same week I also purchased a personal Original Filofax in nude. I LOVE the Filofax WO2P inserts. I know a lot of people don't, but I always have so those are the inserts that are currently in my VDS. This past weekend I purchased some review process printable inserts from Kendra Bork. I am newly obsessed with her Youtube Channel. Here are a couple of photos of my new VDS planner. You can find more on my Instagram profile @Createyou86.
I hope that you enjoyed this post, and that you are as excited as I am about seeing more posts each week. What are you doing during quarantine to keep up with planning? Let me know in the comments. I know this is a hard time for planning, but there is still plenty to be planning!
Welcome to another product review here at Createyou86. This product is really great for someone who might need or want a deeper understanding of the Bible, but who is not wanting to, or doesn't have the time in their busy lives to deep dive into re-reading the Bible itself. This book will give that person a deeper understanding in only 15 minutes a day!
This book is broken down so that anyone can easily understand the Bible. Some of the features that I think are great include:
I have included some photos from the book to showcase some of the study guides, and self tests that are available in each chapter.
If you or someone you know are struggling with understanding different themes within the Bible I highly recommend this book. If you are looking for some more information about this book I also recommend checking out this short YouTube video. You can find this book for $19.99 which is a great price for something that simplifies the bible.
If you found this post useful definitely share it with someone who you feel could benefit from it!
LET ME KNOW IN THE COMMENTS BELOW: What topic do you struggle with most in studying the Bible?
I was provided this product for free from Flyby Productions in exchange for an honest product review.
Welcome to another Blog post here at Createyou86. It has been a while since I posted anything about planning, and organization, and there is good reason for that. I have been back in school, and still in recovery from surgery, but mostly school. The amount of work was out of this world, but I finished off the semester with a 3.566 GPA which is very exciting.
Tonight I had an amazing conversation with Lucinda from Organized Planner Chic on The Createyou86 Podcast, and the conversation was all about our 2018 Planner Anti-Haul. This episode is all about items that we will never purchase in the planner community, and things that we don't really understand within the planner community. I got this idea from The Planner Girl Chatter Podcast and I not only thought that it was extremely funny, but I liked the conversation that was had surrounding the planner community. I had so much fun doing this episode that I decided that it needed an accompanying blog post. My anti-haul list, and the full podcast episode is posted below.
I really hope that you enjoy this post as much as I enjoyed creating it, and podcasting about it. This is a great post if you are looking for gift ideas for your planner friends for the holidays, or if you might want to create your own anti-haul list as well.
If you loved this post share it with a friend who you think would benefit from it!
LET ME KNOW IN THE COMMENTS BELOW: WHAT IS YOUR #1 ANTI-HAUL ITEM?
Welcome to another product review here at Createyou86. This product is such a beautiful book. It is 365 days of devotionals for young women. If you would like to learn more about this beautiful book for young women please keep reading.
Welcome to another product review here at Createyou86. I can't believe that it is already December! Where has the year gone? December is a great time to pick up a new Bible for the new year, and to gift give Bible's to younger children for the holiday's too. I have more information about the number one Bible for kids if you keep reading, and it is one of the best Bible's that I have seen so far!
Welcome to another special product review here at Createyou86. I am in love with these journals. They all have their own personalities, and would each be perfect for the art lover in your family. For those of you that love Bible journaling these art journals are perfect. I will be reviewing each of the three journals in this post including photos, and my thoughts on each.